| BE PATIENT: Building trust takes time. A person may not show it at first, but your help may be just what is needed. Be persistent. |
| PRAISE IS POWER: A word of praise in a critical world works miracles in the life of a person with a mental illness. |
| SET BOUNDARIES: Most mentoring relationships develop and flourish without problems. Occasionally, however, something comes up. Mentors have an important role, but this doesn't include replacing family or mental health professionals. A mentor can help guide a person to the appropriate source for additional help. |
| TRY TO UNDERSTAND THEIR VIEWPOINT: Even if you don't share his or her point of view, trying to appreciate it shows you care. |
| CELEBRATE DIFFERENCES: Experienced mentors report that working with personS from a different background broadened their own horizons and deepened their understanding of other people and cultures. Sometimes it is the differences that make the difference. |
| BE HONEST: Your friend will know you aren't perfect. If you make mistakes, admit it. Say you're sorry. It's a skill they may only learn from you. |
| BE THERE: Just the sound of your concerned voice can make a big difference in the life of a person with a mental illness. |
| BE POSITIVE: Ask yourself, "What encouragement can I give if my young friend disappoints himself or herself?" Mentors are in the business of helping people make the most of their lives. Allow the person to make a few "growing" mistakes when they learn new things. |
| BELIEVE: Many people in our communities with mental illness struggle with self-esteem. Your faith in them can be the greatest gift you can give. |
